Day 1:
Before you move forward with divorce, it might be wise to make some plans… Follow our Tessmer Tips for the next few weeks to learn what preparations to make.
Before you move forward with divorce, it might be wise to make some plans… Follow our Tessmer Tips for the next few weeks to learn what preparations to make.
Day 2:
If a divorce is in your future, and you don’t have credit cards in your own name …. Apply for them now.
If a divorce is in your future, and you don’t have credit cards in your own name …. Apply for them now.
Day 3:
If you think you might be headed for a divorce, be sure to stay involved with your children! They need all the support they can get through this turbulent time!
If you think you might be headed for a divorce, be sure to stay involved with your children! They need all the support they can get through this turbulent time!
Day 4:
If you are thinking it might be time for a divorce, it might be a good idea to withdraw half of the money in all your savings accounts.
If you are thinking it might be time for a divorce, it might be a good idea to withdraw half of the money in all your savings accounts.
Day 5:
If a divorce is coming …. Be sure to safeguard any property that belongs to you. Some things are not replaceable and could be used for spite or leverage ….
If a divorce is coming …. Be sure to safeguard any property that belongs to you. Some things are not replaceable and could be used for spite or leverage ….
Day 6:
Be sure to limit major purchases if you think a divorce is in your future. New bills can be financially devastating as you and your spouse attempt to support two households.
Be sure to limit major purchases if you think a divorce is in your future. New bills can be financially devastating as you and your spouse attempt to support two households.
Day 7:
If you think you need a divorce, try to be the one that stays in the marital residence. It might strengthen your position for custody of the kids ….
If you think you need a divorce, try to be the one that stays in the marital residence. It might strengthen your position for custody of the kids ….
Day 8:
If a divorce seems imminent, go talk to a counselor or psychologist. Sometimes, a neutral third party can help you think straight.
If a divorce seems imminent, go talk to a counselor or psychologist. Sometimes, a neutral third party can help you think straight.
Day 9:
Sometimes, no amount of planning will prepare you for an emergency. If you are being abused – get out. Go to a shelter. Go to a friend. Call the police.
Sometimes, no amount of planning will prepare you for an emergency. If you are being abused – get out. Go to a shelter. Go to a friend. Call the police.
Day 10:
It may seem heartless, but before you ask your spouse for a divorce, it might be helpful to consider some pre-divorce planning. Continue to follow Tessmer Tips for more divorce planning tips.
It may seem heartless, but before you ask your spouse for a divorce, it might be helpful to consider some pre-divorce planning. Continue to follow Tessmer Tips for more divorce planning tips.